So growing up not-mormon (lds as they prefer to be called, utah-cult as we call em) is a weird experience. In fact, i can't even date someone who didn't grow up non mormon, it's like dating an alien.
I remember my brother's broken arm, shattered by the mormon's at the new neighborhood busstop, as they learned he wasn't mormon.
I remember the girls, high on pot, calling me a 'slut' because I wasn't in their church on sunday.
I remember my parents being told that their cat would be "hung on a cross" by the bishop, if it should "ever enter my yard again" ... a cat.
Who was christ? A cat slaughter, arm breaking, soul destroying, pot smoking man? ... well.. he probably smoked pot, but somehow I doubt the rest.
God bless utah!
I remember my brother's broken arm, shattered by the mormon's at the new neighborhood busstop, as they learned he wasn't mormon.
I remember the girls, high on pot, calling me a 'slut' because I wasn't in their church on sunday.
I remember my parents being told that their cat would be "hung on a cross" by the bishop, if it should "ever enter my yard again" ... a cat.
Who was christ? A cat slaughter, arm breaking, soul destroying, pot smoking man? ... well.. he probably smoked pot, but somehow I doubt the rest.
God bless utah!
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Mon, December 22, 2003 - 10:58 AMWow, we all have little stories like that don't we? My experience growing up here non-mormon wasn't so weird, or was it? I like to think I had a really good experience growing up here, but the effects show up from subconscious levels. I too find myself only able to date those who grew up non-mormon. I'm skeptical and cynical and always expect to be the outsider when walking into a room. And from trying my hardest not to be hypocritical and reverse the prejudice towards the mormons, I find myself in denial about things that really irk me about the mormons having such a presence in my town, such as the whole Main St./ South Temple debaucle. -
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Tue, January 6, 2004 - 9:48 AMIt actually makes no sense for me to join this tribe, because I did grow up mormon, and I'm not in Utah anymore, either. But I was, for the most part, considered the "bad" one in my microcosm of a neighborhood, which greatly sucked, and I periodically consider moving back to SLUT because I miss my family or else maybe I've been hypnotized. Now I have a daughter, and a totally clueless nonmormon husband, and I hate to think of the suffering they might endure if we were to move there. However, I can't seem to resist this totally irrational homesickness that posesses me much of the time. They tell me SL is not nearly as stifling as it used to be, but of course it's my family telling me this and I suspect they have ulterior motives...BTW, totally with you all the way about the "reverse prejudice" thing, you know, you try to be open minded, but they make it so easy to get irked...
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Unsu...
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Sat, May 29, 2004 - 12:53 PMI had a conversation the other day with a coworker about how my family moved to Utah in 1857 to take advantage of the free land that the church gave to members, she being Mormon asked If I was "active" and all that crap.
I said "No, I'm pretty much a jack-mormon and I plan to stay that way." she asks why and I patiently explain:"...Well, when my Great, Great Gramppa Joe got that land from Brother Brigham, he kinda decided that he was only enough mormon to keep that land, after awhile his offspring didnt even have to pretend, and so now we don't...I am very PROUD of my family and being a JACK mormon, and if I went active I would be betraying five generations of sacred tradition! -
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Sun, June 20, 2004 - 10:41 AMHi, all. Just joined the group and wanted to say hi. I grew up in the Salt Lake area. I was raised athiest, because my mother left the church herself as a teenager. I stay in Utah because of the beautiful outdoors, and periodically escape the city's politics by finding refuge among the red rock and Juniper trees in Southern Utah. -
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Mon, June 21, 2004 - 8:13 PMKristina,
Right with you sista! me too- I like to think of myself as the "Piute Resistance Movement"....we havent won many battles yet, but we will in the end. I feel sorry for all the noncultists I have known over the years that just gave up and moved away... -
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Tue, June 22, 2004 - 10:26 AMYeah but...
If you are not into the OUTDOORS thing (skiing, mountain biking, hiking) and not of the "dominant faith", why stick around?
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Tue, June 22, 2004 - 6:32 PMHmmm... That is a tough one. Well, I'm not sure if this'll do it for ya, but if you're into the arts, this isn't a bad place to be. I work as a stagehand, and there is usually a fair amount of events going on, from big concerts and broadway shows, to community plays and dance performances.
But there are occaisions when I do wonder if the good things here are worth the politics that come with it... -
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Wed, June 23, 2004 - 12:03 PMI do love the arts...didn't realize that we have a good thing as far as that goes. Makes me feel a little better. Thanks.
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Unsu...
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Tue, June 22, 2004 - 11:44 PMElle,
Salt Lake has been known worldwide for it's strong "countercultural" scene...If you are into that. nonmormons here seem to alll know each other and tend to see each other even far from home...Over all a good place to be to be "Othrer"... -
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Wed, June 23, 2004 - 12:05 PMInteresting...I'm not too much into counterculture, but it's good to know that there are folks out there (who are not church members) that feel connected.
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